Friend and tears

Yesterday's tears build a river,
Washing the soul of its pain,
Cleansing the heart and mind
Like a gentle sweet spring rain.

Sometime, somewhere,somehow, you feel like you gonna cry a river. And the throat aches from the tears shed. and sometime, you rather be alone then people coming lend their hand. It is not because you are selfish, or you hate them.But because, you just want to be alone...

But sometime, it is hard to find a real friend. A friend that really understand you the way you want them to be. The one that meet your expectation.The one that knows when to listen and when to speak.Thus, you end up mingling with yourself. It is just because, we often expect more from people.We expect people to understand us, to know what we want deep in the heart, to suit our emotional needs. But, do we do the same thing, the other way around?

with life's twist and rolling, we cant never determined what the future may hold.The only guarantee is that nothing will stay the same. And expecting changes is a good preparation.
If by some chances that we never ever manage to get what we really want in life, isn't it worth enough if appreciate what we've already own right now.

People might have different opinions and stand about this. Some people believe that we have to get as many friends as we could, as friendship is the most important thing in our life.But for me, it is not the matter of how many friends you have, 10, 20, or 50,it is how you can give something to your friends and how the relationship is about. A friend is someone that can pull you out when you are in darkness and despair when all 'the other' put you into it. A friend is someone that can listen but not judging you. Friend is someone that can say no, when you are wrong. It is not about everyday conversation, always togetherness but knowing even you are separated by time or distance, that there is someone, who remembers you, who cares for you and hoping the very best for you.


so, it is not easy to find a real friend. and it is also, not easy to become one. that's why, in this life, in this life, its not fair to expect too much from other people because people has flaws. You and me, we have flaws. Sure, sometime, our judgment was driven by our emotional perceptions.So, train yourselves this several things :

1) Forget what people did bad to you
2)Remember what people did good to you
3) Forget what you did good to people
4) Remember what you did bad to people

so that, we can always aware, we are not the perfect person, so do everyone else. And that what friends are for.

In my life, friends come and go..Some of them stay. For good or bad reasons. But for me,once they become my friend, they will always be mine..No matter what happened. be it good or bad. because friends will leave something to you. even it is hurt, or meaningful, whether big or small, they sure leave something in your heart. that's the beauty of friendship.
So it's up to you, how to lead and sail the ship. The choice is in your hand.

Just remember, Allah has promised us, whoever ties the bond of two people whose being a part(not literal meaning) , heaven will waits for them. Whoever loves their friends because of HIM, heaven is the best place for them..

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